Hi, thanks witsend for the feedback. This time I started the car and then started the self tune program. There was silence from the transmission (with engine off previously there would be an actuator clunking sound during the tune process) and the display showed car in Neutral. The only feedback during the tune was on the dashboard display asking for me to press the brake pedal about half way through the tune. When the tune had completed (according to the progress bar) I switched the engine off and then the actuators could be heard (for about 15 seconds) as if trying to select a gear although car was still showing in Neutral. There were no errors and no prompting to start the car.
I assume that this self tune process would have the engine running and cycle through each gear and set the kiss points? I get the feeling this is a software problem as my car was fine before attempting a self tune? Car runs a Marelli controller and Graziano gearbox.